always saw her crying after every event where there were dances. This classmate of the core was strange in that sense because when there were celebrations, prepared long and with other partners to dance together in front of everyone. When he arrived the day of show, they got the ball very well and saw that production was around. No however, ending the acts always saw her weeping and wailing that something (anything) had not turned out as planned or rehearsed.
Sometimes, things we should enjoy - both daily and those that deep - we become more complex than they should. If you become a perfectionist in everything, runs the risk of being too self-demanding and require much from the rest. That is why I think it's always healthy three things that I raised as a policy of life:
1 º Do not give a lot of laps in the mind of the attitudes and / or actions that offend us from others or in things we expect from them and not given.
2 º Plan with error ranges, always thinking that at any stage anything can go on our hands ... y. ..
3 º Accept that others operate at a very different from ours, and what seems so offensive to us, for others it may be ... and this requires communication.
is good to breathe life leave out all the weight that each day is added to our shoulders. Weight is related to work, college, unresolved problems, who did not greet me, who did this or that. There are people I've noticed is fond look at the details to criticize ... While it is good to view details unhealthy it is to start shooting with complaints in all directions. There are always things that do not work as we want and that does not mean they are bad ... On the contrary, we must strive to adapt to the conditions imposed on us where we live.
To live healthily also one should strive to learn, especially from your mistakes. One can not think that everything "should" do well, because if ever enjoy anything. Yes we must give our best, but make mistakes in between. In short, it's healthy sometimes stop analyzing everything and enjoy more of the general things.
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